Sabotagers!!!
Now, I’m loving myself , working out, watching what I eat, etc, etc and then I start to notice little things.Suddenly, I’m queen for the day! People are bringing me cookies, chocolate cake,etc and at first I was like that’s nice, thanks and then throw in the garbage later on , but after a couple of days I’m starting to wonder …sabotage?
I’m a open book on certain things, like my weight and my hair ( I change hairstyles as often as I change my underwear…hahahah). Most of my friends know that I’m on the health trip, since I carry a notepad around and I write down everything I eat (yep…anal). I started noticing that friends who couldn’t give a shit what I ate before, are now pushing me to eat things that I do not want to eat!….My BF says that sometimes people like to keep individuals in a box and maybe my losing weight and taking care of myself is starting to become “problem” for some ….envy, fear?…REALLY! So I decided to put it to a test….I told my GFS that I had overeaten, so the next couple of days I’m going to try and eat healthy….do you know the next day, 3 of the 5 heifers brought me CRAPPY FOOD to eat ( my favorites), one to the point a huge bag of chocolate chip cookies!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!WTF!
I should of called them on it,but I really do not think that it is intentional so I used the gentler approach…I’m not going to lie I ate some of the cookies but gave the rest away ( I had four…and believe me that was self-control …cookie monster has nothing on me!)….However, one particular female I had to let go, since I felt she had some issues she needs to work on before we can be friends again ( you know that saying misery loves company….support is one thing trying to make me feel gulity because I’m moving forward is another…I’m to0 old for that crap!!!)….anyways take care….time to workout ….
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Listen to your intuition. Some people feel threatened by change, and if you are changing they my feel uncomfortable with that and want.. (maybe not even conciously) to maintain the status quo. Being aware , and realizing it may not even be intentional on their part, is good. Now you need to have a plan to deal with it , and look after yourself. Recognizing what is going on is the first step. Now you have to decide how to deal with it. They may have self esteem issues of their own, or may be jealous of you. It’s hard to know what is behind it, but you’ll have to give it some thought, and figure out the best way to deal with it. Having a plan to deal with these situations is the best defense. Good luck!
good job! on staying strong, it’s really hard when people closest to you are your last supporters.
There is always someone who wants to force you to eat something you don’t want to. What the heck? I try to avoid it as much as possible, but I find myself getting trapped by the coercion. Run! I’ll try to follow my own advice.
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